I was never blessed with long hair, but I’ve tried every method to achieve it, from fusion extensions to clip-ins. And while I’ve always achieved the glamorous look that I was going for, I was never pleased with my own hair. In 2009, I decided to cut it all off, every inch of it. I spent the year experimenting with my hair, trying looks from the Pixie to the Mohawk.
In 2010, I made the decision to stop relaxing my hair. At the time my hair was cut in a pixie style a la Halle Berry. I grew tired of the constant upkeep with having to relax my new growth every two weeks and I decided I was ready for a major change. So, I embarked on my natural hair journey.
I was excited and a little frightened at the thought of transitioning. Words like the big chop or the awkward or “in-between” phase made me cringe. I combed natural hair blogs and watched hundreds of YouTube tutorials, before I determined what method was right for me. Because my hair was so extremely short, I decided to give sew-in extensions another try.
From September 2010 to May 2013, I wore extensions full-time. Meaning, I never let my real hair out. I would go to the salon and get my extensions taken down and put back in the same day. Many clients believe that this is damaging to the hair, but from my experience, with proper care, you not only can improve the condition of your hair but, also contribute to its growth and thickness.
In May of 2013, I finally relinquished my extensions, ready to see if all my hard work had paid off. I was so incredibly pleased that I felt like crying. My hair had reached mid-back length in just under four years, with no painfully awkward phases in between.
HERE ARE MY FIVE TIPS TO HELP YOUR CLIENTS DO IT TOO.
1. Braids Too Tight
Full sew-in extensions can be dangerous if not done properly. Make sure to braid your client’s hair gently and just tight enough to never put stress on the hair. Tight braids do NOT mean your sew-in is going to last longer! If your client’s braids are tight enough to cause them real pain then they are too tight. Your client’s hair should thrive while they wear extensions and not be prone to damage.
2. Baby Your "Leave Out"
For clients who aren’t receiving a full head of extensions, taking good care of the hair that’s left out is extremely important. Because this portion of the hair is not being braided, it is the most susceptible to damage. Keep all heat styling to a bare minimum in these areas. Putting an excessive amount of heat and oil on your client’s hair will result in breakage.